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The Resilient Architect

A free, burnout resilience newsletter for Architects. One actionable tactic each week to help you overcome chronic burnout, engineer self-awareness, and build a thriving career in architecture.

Stop sabotaging your architecture career 🤚

February 24, 2025 Hello, Friend! Burnout isn’t just making you tired – it’s actively derailing your architecture career. As someone who’s coached hundreds of young architects through career transitions and burnout, I’ve seen firsthand how insidious burnout can be. It doesn’t just show up as exhaustion or Sunday night dread. It manifests in subtle ways that can completely derail your professional growth. The worst part? Most architects don’t realize it’s happening until they’re deep in the...

Why most Architects never reach their potential šŸ˜“

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ September 28, 2026 Hey, Architect. Most Architects never ask themselves the hard questions that actually matter. We get caught up in project deadlines, client demands, and the daily grind of practice. We tell ourselves we’re too busy for introspection, too focused on ā€œgetting things doneā€ to pause and examine whether we’re actually building the creative life we want. But here’s the...

11pm Archi-deadline crisis: stay or go? šŸ¤”

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ September 21, 2026 Hey, Architect. Balance doesn’t mean shaking off responsibility. Especially when you know it’s the right thing to do. I learned this the hard way after burning out early in my career, pushing myself to save every project, meet every impossible deadline, and be the hero who stayed until 2am fixing everyone else’s problems. Now I’ve found something better than blind...

42 Lessons about Life as an Architect šŸ“

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ September 14, 2026 Hey, Architect. This past week, I turned 42. Not in the retirement home just yet.But not quite young anymore either. I’m not mad about it.Time has been great to me. As an Architect, a writer, a fiancĆ©, a brother, a pet dad, a creator, a mentor, a bowler, and a triathlete, I’ve learned a lot about myself and my creative life. Today, I thought I’d share what 42 years...

Q&A: Pushing through, your work or your relationship, the generation gap šŸ¤”

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ September 7, 2026 Hey, Architect. Welcome to another Q&A with your friendly neighborhood Resilient Architect. Each month, I respond to the questions you want most about burnout, work-life balance, career development, and team management. Curated from Architects of all different experience levels, from Emerging Professionals, Mid-Career, and Firm Leaders. If you have a question you’d like...

Why good Architects leave without a fight

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ August 31, 2026 Hey, Architect. It may be hard to hear this, but the best Architect in your firm may leave without complaining once. It seemed like any other Thursday. Your strongest Project Architect asks for ten minutes. She closes the door, hands you a letter, and tells you her last day is in two weeks. New firm, similar work, twenty percent more money. You go back through a year of...

School taught you to defend. Not to lead. šŸ‘©ā€šŸ’¼

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ August 24, 2026 Hey, Architect. Architecture school builds excellent designers and almost no leaders. This time every year, a new class of Architecture students fills studios across the globe, ready to take on anything. In the months and years that follow, school will teach them how to craft strong theses, build epic portfolios, and develop creative skills. But there’s something missing....

What a friend’s sudden passing taught me about resilience

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ August 17, 2026 Hey, Architect. Today, I have one simple question. What really matters to you? This past week, I found out my friend Rob Szudzik passed away suddenly at 42 years old. He was a respected Architect here in Buffalo, a past AIA Chapter President and Board Member, and someone who spent years working to make the profession better for the people coming up behind him. Rob and I...

Q&A: Boundaries, promotions, and burnout šŸ”„

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ August 10, 2026 Hey, Architect. Welcome to another Q&A with your friendly neighborhood Resilient Architect. Each month, I respond to the questions you most want answered about burnout, work-life balance, career development, and team management. Curated from Architects of all different experience levels, from Emerging Professionals, Mid-Career, and Firm Leaders. → One reader wants to know...

The Odyssey, Resilience, and Architecture ā›µšŸŒŠ

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ August 3, 2026 Hey, Architect. Sometimes the most impactful lessons in our lives come from the oldest, timeless of tales. Imagine for a moment, you’re ten years into a project that should’ve taken one. Your client’s exhausted.Your team’s running on fumes. And then, finally, you find the move that ends it. You take some shortcuts just to get it over with. You win.Everyone celebrates.But...

As an Architect, solutions get you hired. This gets you promoted. šŸ‘Øā€šŸ’¼

Did someone forward this to you?Join our valued community of ambitious Architect subscribers. Learn more→ July 27, 2026 Hey, Architect. Nobody ever sits you down and tells you the real reason some Architects repeatedly get handed the hard projects, and others get handed the easy ones. But I will. For as long as I can remember, I’ve always been good at solving problems. For the first couple years of my career, that’s all I focused on. Give me a stair detail conflict, a code question, a client...

A free, burnout resilience newsletter for Architects. One actionable tactic each week to help you overcome chronic burnout, engineer self-awareness, and build a thriving career in architecture.